MOORESVILLE — The first time you meet Jesuit Fathers Frank Reese and Don Ward, you get the sense that you are in for a few laughs. Their friendship forged over the past four years as Jesuit priests serving the people at St. Thérèse Church is evident. They poke fun at each other, smiling as they exchange inside jokes. It seems as if they have been friends and roommates forever.
"We've been banished to the downstairs (of the rectory)," they joke.
Despite the fact that Father Frank, 87, entered the Jesuit order in 1950 and Father Don, 76, entered in 1957, the two have more of a brotherly relationship.
This year, Father Frank is celebrating his 55th anniversary of ordination; Father Don his 45th.
Both priests say they grew up in very devout Catholic families in Philadelphia, attending Catholic schools during their formative years, and the Jesuits they came into contact with in their families and in their schools really made an impression on them.
But Father Don remembers rejecting the idea of a priestly vocation during his senior year of high school.
"I went to Holy Cross (in Worchester, Mass.), thinking I was going to be a doctor, and I met a very nice chemistry teacher who taught me that was not my vocation," Father Don jokes. "Somewhere during the first year of college, I thought I would like to do what I saw Jesuits doing. I never thought about any other order or the diocesan priesthood."
Father Frank spent 14 months in the Army in the mid-1940s before discerning his call to the priesthood.
The two laugh about their college experiences.
"Frank went to St. Joe College and I went to Holy Cross," Father Don explains. "But Frank finished and I didn't!"
"And I had the same experience with chemistry!" Father Frank chimes in.
Pictured: Brother Jesuits, Father Frank Reese (far left) and Father Donald Ward (far right) are pictured with Bishop Peter J. Jugis after the dedication of the new St. Thérèse Church March 28 in Mooresville. They are celebrating 55 years and 45 years of priestly ministry, respectively. Also pictured are Jesuit Father Vincent Curtin, pastor; Deacon Joe Santen; Deacon Myles Decker; and Jesuit Father Dominic Totaro. (SueAnn Howell, Catholic News Herald)
Father Frank has an interesting explanation as to why he passed through the various steps of Jesuit formation more quickly than usual. "It was because I was bald," he deadpans, and people thought he was a later vocation.
After novitiate studies and vows in Wernersville, Pa., Father Frank studied philosophy in Spring Hill, Ala., for two years (1953-'55) with Jesuits from all over the country. He then taught for two years at Georgetown Prep outside Washington, D.C.
In 1957, Father Frank entered the largest Jesuit seminary in the U.S., Woodstock College outside of Baltimore (now closed), for his theology studies.
"It wasn't easy, but it was worthwhile," he recalls.
He was ordained in the Woodstock College Chapel by Cardinal Egidio Vagnozzi, on June 19, 1960, along with 23 other Jesuits.
"It was a joyful time," he recalls, especially since his parents and some of his other family were able to attend. "It was great to be finally getting out into parishes, to get out of the House of Studies."
Father Frank also worked with six other priests who served at a mental hospital in Shillington, Pa., after ordination while finishing his theology studies.
Father Don, who was ordained after the Second Vatican Council, had a slightly different experience. He studied theology at a new seminary north of Chicago, in Aurora, Ill., staying in a former Hilton Hotel with a room overlooking a pool.
"It was very good for me. I had studied (for years) with the same people. I hadn't left the province. I didn't know anyone (out there). It was much more structured than the East Coast. The Midwest was more structured. I had a great time."
He returned to Woodstock College for his second and third year of seminary. "I really did like Woodstock. I really liked theology. It was a happy time for me."
Father Don was also ordained in the chapel at Woodstock College, in 1970, by Cardinal Lawrence Sheehan in the last class ordained there. He remembers driving home to attend his sister's graduation the day before his ordination and then driving his father through a bad storm to attend his ordination the next day. His dad was ill, so it meant a lot to have him there, he says.
"His being there is what I remember most about the ordination. I don't remember anything about the Mass."
"I mentioned my dad in my first homily," he adds. "He told me if I talked too long he'd walk out. A famous Jesuit who was there told me that was the best homily he had ever heard!"
Teaching was a huge part of both priests' experiences as they developed their gifts and talents.
Father Frank spent his first year after ordination in tertianship, a third year of spiritual formation. He was sent to high schools in Pittsburgh, Pa., then back to his beloved Philadelphia, where he taught at St. Joseph's Preparatory School for 11 years. After a sabbatical in Toronto, he asked to work in Appalachia and was assigned to start spiritual retreats in Hot Springs, N.C., at what became the Jesuit House of Prayer. He was also the pastor for Madison County, where the Jesuits first came to minister in the 1920s.
"I worked with a wonderful pioneer priest, Jesuit Father Andy Graves. He was a wonderful mentor and friend. (Also) Father Joe McCloskey and Mercy Sister Peggy Verstege. It was a great experience."
After Father Don was ordained, he served briefly in Boston and then spent nine years at Gonzaga High School in Washington, D.C. He always had a deep desire to serve outside the U.S., and begged his Jesuit superiors to send him abroad. He finally got his wish in 1981, when he was sent to Chile.
He spent two years in Santiago teaching in the high school there. He also worked with the outreach to the poor started by St. Alberto Hurtado called Hogar de Cristo (Home of Christ), helping the needy. He was able to work in Osorno for three years before returning to the U.S. to serve at St. Joseph's Preparatory School in Philadelphia – the same school where Father Frank taught years before.
Father Don jokingly admits that his superiors have "matched the jobs to my personality" over the years.
His love of new experiences and exposure to different cultures have allowed him to travel the world during his priestly ministry, especially Africa.
"It was challenging. It grew on me. I loved Africa."
He bounced back and forth between cities in the northeastern U.S. (Camden, N.J., was one city where he served Puerto Rican and Dominican parishioners) and places like the Dominican Republic and Africa. "It was a fabulous experience," he said of serving the elderly in the Dominican Republic.
Father Frank, on the other hand, has a very distinguished service record here in the U.S., especially in western North Carolina, where he also served in Mars Hill, working with the Catholic community to build St. Andrew the Apostle Church in 1991 and ministering to the people of nearby Sacred Heart Mission in Burnsville. He had a growing Hispanic population at his parishes there and he greatly appreciated their deep love of the faith. He admits his grasp of Spanish, which he did not learn until his 70s, was a bit of a challenge.
But, he recalls, "It was a very joyful experience. Studying the Bible in a new language was a great gift. It opens your eyes in a different way."
He had the help of Sister Verstege in assisting the Hispanic community in Burnsville, where she still ministers today.
Father Frank says he never could have imagined all that the Lord has done in his life as he has followed the path of St. Ignatius of Loyola in serving the Church as a Jesuit.
"We are formed in the spirituality of St. Ignatius, our founder, which calls us to strive to know Jesus more intimately, love Him more ardently and serve Him more perfectly, and always to strive for the 'magis,' i.e., to try to do whatever is for the greater glory of God."
"I could tell God was doing something different when he moved me to North Carolina," he adds. "I could feel it in my being."
Father Don has also settled into life in North Carolina at the growing parish of St. Thérèse. He has been there for seven years, arriving before Father Frank, and now particularly ministers to the parish's Latino community.
"Of all the changes (in my assignments) this adjustment has been the easiest of my life," he says. "I really like North Carolina!"
Both Father Frank and Father Don have advice for men discerning the priesthood.
"Pray. Talk to people. Trust," says Father Frank. "Keep trying to follow the leading of the Lord. In my experience, the Lord leads. It may require patience. Trust requires that."
Father Don agrees that prayer is essential. "Pray. Have a spiritual director. Stay close to the Eucharist."
They both agree that they are very blessed by the communities they serve, which welcomed them warmly.
"It's been a joy ride," Father Frank says about his priestly vocation, drawing laughter from Father Don. "Some days!" chimes in Father Don.
— SueAnn Howell, senior reporter
GREENSBORO — Monsignor Joseph Showfety returned to the church of his childhood May 19 to say Mass and give thanks to God for his priestly vocation. The day marked his 60th jubilee of ordination, and the place – St. Benedict Church in Greensboro – was where he had first felt the call to priestly life as a young altar boy.
Monsignor Showfety is one of the first native priests in the Diocese of Charlotte and served for seven years as its first chancellor.
Pictured: Monsignor Showfety celebrated his 60th anniversary of ordination with Mass May 19 at St. Benedict Church in Greensboro followed by a reception hosted by the Vincent G. Taylor Fourth Degree Assembly 779.(Photo provided by Father Paul Gary)
Growing up the son of devout Lebanese Catholic immigrants Abdou and Edna Showfety, Monsignor Showfety lived just a few blocks away from St. Benedict's, and starting in the third grade at St. Benedict School he began serving 7 a.m. daily Mass. He credits Daughter of Charity Sister Genevieve Riordan and the other women religious who were his teachers, as well as Monsignor Hugh Dolan, pastor, for encouraging his vocation.
Serving at the altar drew him closer to Christ, he recalls, and he thinks it's unfortunate that more children today do not have the same opportunity to attend daily Mass as he once did.
"Priests can be a great, great influence on kids," he notes.
He attended The Citadel in Charleston, S.C., in the final months of World War II and then spent 16 months in the Navy. After service he went to Mount Saint Mary's College (now University) in Emmitsburg, Md., for four years. Bishop Vincent Waters of Raleigh then transferred him to St. Mary's Seminary in Baltimore, the nation's oldest Catholic seminary, to complete his studies. He remains grateful that Bishop Waters moved him to St. Mary's, and he has many fond memories of the rector there, Sulpician Father James Laubacher.
"He was a very good man," he recalls, and had just the right approach in guiding each of the men through their discernment and preparation for the priesthood. No small feat for the rector, when Monsignor Showfety's class alone had 153 men.
During the summers the young seminarian worked in parishes, doing mostly "census work" – visiting parish families' homes and updating the parish rolls. It was grueling work in the summer heat and humidity, he recalls, especially given the black serge cassocks they wore at the time, but he didn't mind.
He was ordained by Bishop Waters on May 19, 1955, along with Father Thomas Clements and the late Father Robert Shea.
He remembers Bishop Waters as a demanding yet fair leader who knew every inch of his North Carolina territory and loved the Church. "He knew the parishes, he knew the priests," he says. "I can never exaggerate the work he did for the Church in this state. It was his goal to have a Catholic presence in every county in the state."
Before he retired in 2002, Monsignor Showfety served in 11 parishes in North Carolina, and nearly everywhere he served he either oversaw new building projects or renovations.
One of his first assignments was at a small parish in eastern North Carolina, he remembers. When he checked the bank account, he found only $1.73, he says with a laugh. When he left the parish for his next assignment a couple of years later, the parish had a couple thousand dollars in the bank, he adds.
Monsignor Showfety also served as director of Our Lady of the Hills Camp, principal of Asheville Catholic High School and director of Bishop McGuinness High School, but it as the first chancellor of the diocese from 1972 to 1979 that the impact of his service still resounds today.
He was one of the first to learn in late 1971 when Bishop Waters told Monsignor Michael Begley that he had petitioned Rome to divide his diocese of 60,000 Catholics and create the Charlotte diocese.
Diocese of Charlotte archive photo Our Lady of Grace Church was dedicated on Sept. 14, 1952, presided over by apostolic delegate Archbishop Amleto Cicognani (center). The priest with his back facing the congregation is Monsignor Hugh Dolan, and behind him is Monsignor Lawrence Newman. Note, second from right, serving as vimp is a young Joseph Showfety of Greensboro, who later became one of the area's first native priests and then rose to serve as the new Diocese of Charlotte's first chancellor when the diocese was established in 1972.The story goes like this: Two days before Thanksgiving 1971, Bishop Waters visited Monsignor Begley in Greensboro, then pastor of Our Lady of Grace Church. Under the guise of looking for property in Greensboro for future parish use, Bishop Waters took the pastor with him. The Raleigh diocese already owned property nearby to relocate Notre Dame High School.
Monsignor Showfety describes what happened next: "Bishop Waters and Monsignor Begley were driving toward the property when the bishop pulled over. 'I'm going to ask you a question. If you say "yes" I'll take it from there. If you say "no" you must never say a word about this conversation to anyone.'
"Intrigued but not surprised by the secrecy, Monsignor Begley wondered what the question was. 'Rome has decided to make Charlotte a diocese with you as the bishop,' said Bishop Waters. 'Do you accept?" The monsignor didn't hesitate and answered, "Yes." Bishop Waters simply put the car in gear and the bishop with the bishop-elect continued down the road."
So how did Monsignor Showfety become the first chancellor?
He recalls that there had been a freak snowstorm in Hendersonville, where he served as pastor at Immaculate Conception Church. He had just come back to the rectory from shoveling a path to the church through the 15 inches of snow. It was a First Friday, Dec. 3, 1971, and he had to prepare to celebrate 11 a.m. Mass. The phone rang.
"It was Bishop-elect Begley calling. I congratulated him and our conversation continued. He said, 'I want you to be chancellor.' My reply was, 'I want to build a new church in Hendersonville.' He replied, 'I know you do. It'll be built, but not by you. I want you in Charlotte.'"
For the next few weeks, Monsignor Showfety traveled back and forth several times to Raleigh to work with the chancellor there, Monsignor Louis Morton. It was the holiday season, but there were only six weeks to set everything up. The date for Bishop Begley's ordination had been set for Jan. 12, 1972, at St. Patrick Cathedral, which was being elevated from its status as a parish church.
Titles for all parish properties and all diocesan vehicles had to be transferred from Bishop Waters to Bishop Begley. It was quite a lot to do for the six men involved: two bishops, two chancellors and two attorneys. Monsignor Showfety spent three days just transferring car titles at the state Department of Motor Vehicles in Raleigh. "The police in that office asked me if I lived there," he remembers with a chuckle.
That excitement and rapid pace set the tone for the new diocese and Monsignor Showfety's role as chancellor, but, he adds, "everything fit in place." The two dioceses worked together through the complex work with warmth and a spirit of brotherhood. Bishop Waters, he recalls, treated the new diocese with generosity and fairness: "He took care of us as much as his own diocese."
A temporary office was set up for the new bishop and the chancellor in a couple of rooms of the rectory at St. Patrick Cathedral by its pastor, Father Richard Allen.
On Jan. 12, 1972, Bishop Begley was ordained, and that night Bishop Waters and Bishop Begley hosted a large dinner at a downtown Charlotte hotel to celebrate.
The next morning, Monsignor Showfety says, "we were open for business."
Neither Bishop Begley nor Monsignor Showfety – then Father Showfety – had any experience for their new jobs, he recalls with a laugh. They had been parish priests and run schools, and Bishop Begley had led Raleigh's Catholic Charities office, but neither had worked in a chancery.
"You grew into the job by doing the work," he says. "You were involved in everything."
The people of the newborn diocese were supportive, he adds, and "the priests were extremely, extremely cooperative and helpful." Particularly Father Allen at the cathedral, Monsignor Showfety says, who "was always extremely helpful in every way."
Bishop Begley spent a lot of time traveling, particularly for confirmations, and Monsignor Showfety accompanied him as his master of ceremonies. Monsignor Showfety also remained busy with the new work of the diocese as well as filling in at parishes wherever needed.
About a month after Bishop Begley was ordained, they found a home for sale about a block away from the cathedral and purchased it for $82,500 to serve as the bishop's residence. "It was a beautiful home," but it needed a little work, Monsignor Showfety recalls. Friends from High Point renovated the house and set up a chapel, as well as furnished and decorated it.
The new diocese set up a fiscal calendar and accounting system, issued its first financial report 18 months after the diocese's creation, and looked for office property so they could move out of a small house on St. Patrick's campus that served as the chancery.
In 1974, the diocese purchased and renovated an office building on Morehead Street near downtown Charlotte – its first consolidated office space.
Monsignor Showfety also formed the first diocesan finance council, consisting of lay professionals from around the diocese, and negotiated health insurance coverage for clergy and staff. A process for reviewing building projects and large capital expenditures was also put into place, to ensure that the parishes and the diocese would not take on more debt than they could afford.
The work of the new diocese occupied much of Monsignor Showfety's time, even as he continued filling in at parishes.
One of the last projects Monsignor Showfety was involved in as chancellor was renovation of St. Patrick Cathedral in 1979, to accommodate the changes of Vatican II.
Some earlier plans had included a proposal to replace the pews with folding chairs and the altar with a portable altar that could be moved to different places in the church, but that proposal was rejected. The diocese hired Francis Gibbons of Baltimore, who was known for church renovations and also later did work at St. Leo the Great Church in Winston-Salem.
The marble altar was reworked, a new pipe organ was installed, and the ceiling was redesigned. Over the nave, a blue and silver ceiling was painted depicting crowns with a cross along with wheat and grapes representing the Eucharist. The design comes from the diocesan coat of arms and serves as a reminder of Queen Charlotte of Mecklenburg, for whom the city of Charlotte was named.
Besides all of the other firsts that Monsignor Showfety was a part of, he was among the first of four monsignors appointed by the new diocese in 1976. (The three others were Monsignors William Pharr, Richard Allen and Michael O'Keefe.)
It was meant to be a surprise, but that day – as on most days – he was the one to open the mail. He couldn't help but see the confirmation letter from Rome, he recalls with a laugh, and he had to feign surprise when Bishop Begley made the announcement that afternoon.
Of all the changes over the years, the 88-year-old Monsignor Showfety is proud of how the diocese has grown and flourished, and he applauds the growing participation of the laity and an emphasis on stewardship.
He notes, "It was the biggest honor and privilege of my priesthood" to serve as the diocese's first chancellor.
"I look back now and thank God for the vocation He gave me."
— Patricia L. Guilfoyle, editor. Includes excerpt from "Voices and Places of The People of God," by David Hains
Other jubilarians
Other priests celebrating special anniversaries of ordination in May and June include: Father Thomas Clements, 60 years; Jesuit Father Francis Reese and Benedictine Father Kieran Neilson, 55 years; Monsignor Richard Bellow and Jesuit Donald Ward, 45 years; Father Richard Hanson, Father Joseph Mulligan and Benedictine Father David Brown, 40 years; Benedictine Abbot Placid Solari and Benedictine Father Christopher Kirchgessner, 35 years; Father John Allen, 25 years; Father James Collins, Father Eric Houseknecht and Father Mark Lawlor, 20 years; Father David Brzoska, Father Joseph Dinh, Father Christopher Gober, Father Matthew Kauth, Father Shawn O'Neal, Father Luis Osorio and Father Frank Seabo, 15 years; Father James Ebright, 10 years; and Father Gabriel Carvajal-Salazar, Father John Eckert and Father David Miller, 5 years.